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Whether you are contemplating weight loss surgery or are post-surgery, lifestyle changes are the key to optimize your outcome. Having the right team members with you on this journey will ensure a healthier you and make transitions smoother.
Research shows that individuals who remain in touch with their bariatric centers maintain weight loss and are in better health. Follow ups with your surgeon or Primary Care Provider (who is knowledgeable of post- surgery care) are essential over your life time.
Prior to surgery attendance at one or two nutritional seminars is the norm. The information provided invaluable but often overwhelming. Often your handouts end up loss in a drawer and you struggle with how to vary your diet over time or revert to some unhealthy habits. Learning all you need to know before you have surgery is almost impossible. It’s like reading a book on how to swing a golf club and actually hitting the ball straight onto the green. Consider a Bariatric Specialized Dietician to help over the course of weight loss and management as a valuable team member.
Your significant other and family are crucial members of your team. The more they understand your new normal, both changes in diet and exercise, the more support can be provided. Let family members know your needs, be firm that your health is a priority and what they can do concretely to assist.
Friends become team members only when they are included in your journey. Not all friends may remain on your team. Accept new members who support your lifestyle and cut those who are not able to make the transition with you.
A bariatric support group is another member to add. These groups are a resource to gather new ideas, compare experiences and learn about your new lifestyle.
If you are struggling with emotional hunger, depression or anxiety, counselors can provide a safe place to help learn new coping skills, examine new life goals and resolve any unfinished issues before you sabotage your success.
Most importantly is your bariatric surgery itself on your team? Is it your friend or rival? The framework you place your surgery helps determine future behaviors and motivations. If you treat your surgery as a team mate, one who assists you in keeping obesity in remission, who deserves attention and respect; the guidelines and rules are just part of the game. If you see your surgery as an obstacle, barrier to get around or beat, compliance and ultimately optimal results suffer. Make your surgery your MVP.
So, who is on your team? Add those individuals who will assist you on the way to new opportunities and success.



Bariatric surgery can help psychological and emotional problems.  There is well documented evidence of gains in positive self esteem, sense of taking control of one’s life, energy and vitality.   Anyone who has struggled with obesity is aware of its negative impact on the quality of life over time.  These include difficulties arise in social situations due to discrimination, shame and poor self confidence.  Depression, anxiety and even complete withdrawal from social circles are commonly reported.    Unfortunately losing weight doesn’t always translate into an immediate reversal of social anxiety nor of depression.

Some of the most common post bariatric surgery problems include:

  • A lingering perception of being obese even after losing weight and falling within normal BMI ranges. Years of convincing oneself that they do not look good does not go away in just a few months.
  • Relationships may be affected after weight loss surgery. Most individuals experience an increase in self-confidence.  Good relationships may become stronger while bad relationships may deteriorate further. As the person experiences greater self-confidence and enjoys their new body image, they may improve their sex life. This may strengthen an intimate bond with their significant other.  Those trapped in unhealthy relationships may find the strength to leave or push for changes.
  • Prior to weight loss surgery, individual may have eaten to help cope with negative emotions, to celebrate or just to enjoy the flavors of foods.   Foods high in fats and sugars are often “go to” foods for emotional eaters.  Post surgery, that will no longer be possible. As a result, some patients may feel deprived or resentful, particularly when cravings or hunger returns.  The journey to finding the right combination of foods that satisfy often can be eased by the assistance of a qualified bariatric dietitian
  • Some individuals, in not being able to cope with the change in diet, may develop other addictions to fill the void that food once did. There is an increased risk for abuse of alcohol that all bariatric patients should be aware of.
  • Extra skin after weight loss surgery can be upsetting or depressing. While this is a normal result of weight loss, it can also derail the patient’s journey.

While you will experience challenges after bariatric surgery, there are ways to cope with your changing lifestyle. First, family and friends are important in helping you lose the weight. When family and friends are part of your weight loss solution, you create an intimate group with whom you can brainstorm answers to your problems.

It is also important to attend support groups on a regular basis. You will learn about tips and tricks to lose weight, other people’s experiences and learn what others have done in your position. Support groups have been proven to be a very effective tool in losing weight and keeping the weight off as well as avoiding many psychological issues.

In the end every significant change can affect us. Undergoing bariatric surgery requires a great deal of dedication to your health and diet.  It also opens the door to opportunities for social connectedness,  new interests and passions.  Make sure to take advantage of all the resources and opportunities available to you.

 


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